LADIES: Ten (10) Simple Rules On How To Keep Men Of These Days [A Must Read]
Many women have lost some precious men in their lives because they
couldn't play by the rules of how to keep a man. Some women are now in
their 40′s and still don't have any man in their lives and they blame it
on the old lady in their village. Keeping a man does not demand a
Master's degree or Phd.
It is simply by following some rules that will touch the man inside. Below are 10 rules on how to keep a man:
GIVE HIM SPACE: The fact that he's given you his key does not mean you
should always be in the room, sometimes men love to be alone and always
being around ruins it. If you're that kind of woman who wouldn't let him
have that space and always wanting him available or forcing to
accompany him everywhere, you can ruin your relationship. Respect his
space, it is very important to him.
BE LOYAL: Everybody loves those who show constant support to them and
men are not an exception. Any woman who shows constant support or by
being loyal to his man has a greater chance of keeping him than those
who don't. Every man loves a woman who believes in his ideologies and is
willing to support him achieve them.
BE PATIENT: Every man will find it difficult to stay with a woman who is
impatient and wants to argue all the time. If a man gets angry, it
should take the patient of a woman to calm him down, so if you are the
type who easily gets angry, how will you be able to calm a man down. The
key point here is, be patient. Men hate women who retorts at everything
they say.
DON'T NAG: Most women love to nag but too much of it can scare a man
away. Some women can go to the extent of even following the man to his
work place and nag him till he loses his mind. Women who nag can't keep a
man for long.
BE PROUD OF HIM: There's no man on earth who wouldn't appreciate someone
who is proud of him even for the little that he has. Being proud of
your man and boasting about him makes him love you more. You're not shy
to go anywhere with him, you stand by him in all disgrace and support in
difficult times makes him go bananas for you and if you're a woman who
has this quality, you're bent on always keeping a good man.
BE FAITHFUL: If you're the type of woman who's very faithful to your
man, he becomes proud of you because you make him feel he's the world to
you. Many women actually think being faithful is when you don't allow
any other man to have sex with you that is it. Being faithful goes far
beyond that to a man. Being faithful involves a lot and women need to
check it to know when they are being faithful and when they are not.
Having too many male friends and being too casual with them can mean
being unfaithful to men.
PRAY FOR HIM: Which man wouldn't want this, not even an atheist. It is
important to pray for your man all the time. When you do that, it makes
them know you have good plans for them because you always wish them
well. Learn to pray for your man, it makes him feel you wish him well
and it's satisfying.
LET HIM MAKE THE DECISION UNTIL HE ASK YOU: Some women feel because they
are in a relationship with a man, they can make the decisions in his
life. No man will like a woman who always want to take decisions for
him, it makes him feel he doesn't know his left from his right.
DON'T ASK FOR THINGS YOUR FATHER CAN'T BUY: This simply means, don't
request for things that are above his league. Whenever a woman keeps
requesting for things from a man, he thinks you're for sale and the
moment he also gets what he wants, he's gone, because he feels he's
already paid for it.
AS FAR AS HE DOESN'T CHEAT TO YOUR FACE OR PICK HER CALLS IN YOUR
PRESENCE, DON'T COMPLAIN MANAGE IT. YOUR NEXT MIGHT BE WORSE: Many women
have lost their sweethearts because they went probing into things that
does not concern them. It is true many men love to cheat, but any man
who cheats and hides it from you intends to keep you and doesn't want to
lose you in particular but if you go probing too much, he might be out
the door sooner than you know it. Do not let the other woman be your
worry, rather work on making him yours and the other woman will lose or
else you will lose him to you.
Sometimes it is important to keep mute and flow with the tide than
question everything you see and enjoy the ride. You're the queen, she's
the sidekick, don't bother. So you see how important that is, sometimes
just don't worry your head over other women and you will still win.
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